ARE YOU READY?

 Isaiah 9:6
For unto us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.

 

I was driving my daughter to school, and I asked the simple seasonal question “What do you want for Christmas?”

The response, “An Ipad, cellphone, new Wii (we have one), Wii games, New Nintendo 3D with games (she has the old one), clothes and a dog.”

After looking at her in the rear view mirror to see if she was really serious, I knew before we pulled one ornament out of the box to decorate, there would be some re-connecting to baby Jesus going on in our household.

The list was extravagant and a moment of temporary insanity for her. She will no doubt be blessed with some things, but definitely not ALL of those things.

After we were back on track and assured that she did know the real meaning of Christmas, a bit of sadness came. The media and many of those around ask the question “Are you ready for Christmas?” The majority of the time the question can be translated, “Have you decorated to perfection and bought out the mall?”

If the answer is no to both of those questions…are we not ready?

As I often refer to my children and those close to me as champions, the original Mom of a Champion came to mind….Mary.

When she learned from the angel sent by God that she was carrying the baby, the wedding to Joseph had not yet taken place. Was she ready?

When Joseph scooped her up, while she was in her last trimester of pregnancy, to pay taxes of all things, in the city he was born in ….how convenient was that? Was she ready?

She had to let the the baby sleep in hay among stinky animals. The nursery was not yet finished. The color scheme had not been chosen and the diaper bag not yet packed. Was she ready?

Men followed a star to see the baby and bring gifts. Guests…now of all times? Furthermore, they brought frankincense, myrrh, and gold. What kind of gifts are those for a new baby? They were not the ones she would have registered for? Was she ready?

When she may have finally saw the possibility of a moment of rest, the wise men advised Joseph to once again scoop Mary and the baby up to protect his family from King Herrod. This time, on a donkey to Egypt. Was she ready?

Fast forward years ahead. When she saw her handsome son hanging on a cross suffering… How could any mother be ready for that?

The original mom of a champion may not have been ready. Like us, many things were thrown unexpectedly at her and were not a part of her well laid out agenda. She may not have been ready, but she was obedient. God said, “You have been chosen to bring this great champion of all champions into the world”……Mary said,  ”Yes”.

This Christmas, just be ready…right where you are!

Be ready to celebrate a baby that came to life…for your very life.

If you have not decorated to perfection, look at that Charlie Brown tree with new eyes, as the most beautiful you’ve ever seen.

If you have decorated to perfection and have the gift of beautiful things around you; take time to enjoy them with your family and friends.

If like so many, you’re feeling the effects of the economy, don’t underestimate the gift of you and your time. Don’t forget to celebrate the Lord of hope who is more than able to turn the situation around.

If you are at a good place financially, enjoy shopping and giving, and remember those who are not so fortunate.

In all of these situations, give thanks and find joy. Give thanks for what you do have and what is to come according to His promises.

The  “Joy to the World” we sing about is not contingent on what is wrapped in a box from Macy’s or Toys R Us. The “Joy to the World” we sing about can be found wrapped in each moment of every day. It is not washed away by storms. The light of this joy cannot be turned off, even in the darkest pit.

Joy to the World! The Lord is come!

Are you ready for Christmas?

The Heart of Christmas

It’s simply amazing how time waits on no one. Do you realize that we are only a few  weeks away from the Christmas Holiday Season? The holidays can be a busy time for families, so it can be hard to find opportunities to do things together. It can be tough for families to find time to bond, but it’s important. And it’s more important for blended families.

If you celebrate Christmas, it is time to start making decision on what type of tree you are going trim, family dinner, what gifts you are going to give each other, and so much more. Or you may be a family that do not practice going out purchasing gifts, but yet choose to give back to your community. After all, the holiday is a reason to give and not so much about receiving. The holiday season is a time for being thankful and grateful for what we have. It’s also a time to think of others. What better way, then, to spend time with your children during the holidays than to volunteer with them? 

A few years ago, we decided that we weren’t going to spend a lot of money on pricey gifts to give our children in turn to have them play for a while and throw them in a corner or toy box and rarely revisit them again. Instead, we made a decision to cook and enjoy a big family dinner together with all the fixing and trimmings.  While sitting at dinner, we began to discuss those that were not as fortunate to have a dinner, let alone a family to enjoy. We discussed the many people that were sleeping on the streets, trying to find food where they could. Be it out of trash cans, standing on the side of the road asking for help or even going without a good meal all together.

So we decided that after dinner, we would all take plates to feed the hungry. We made it a family affair. Being that we are a blended family and have a total of 7 children, each one of us had our own set of responsibilities. As we prepared the plates, I began telling them the real reason for the season.  When we were all done, we loaded up the vehicle and headed out to the inner city. Living in the suburbs, homelessness is not something that you see that often. So the kids didn’t know what to expect, but we prepared them.

When we arrived, the homeless people were so glad to see someone who actually cared enough and thought about them. It brought tears to my eyes to see our children handing out plates, bottles of water, and eating utensils to the people. What really touched me is when I say my teenagers and tween children touching and hugging each one that they gave a dinner. It showed me that they were not so prideful that they realized the homeless were just like you and I.

Today, that act of kindness is something that they still remember. They do not remember or even know where half of the “things” that we bought them are located. What they do remember is the time spent and acts of kindness given towards others. That is the real reason for the season.

As a wife, mother of 7, I appreciate the family that God has blessed me with. I am going to continue encouraging and teaching our children that it is better to give than to receive.  We will also continue to reach them how to be a blessing to others.

As we approach Christmas 2012, I encourage you to come up with some ideas for sharing moments and creating family memories. If you are a blended family like we are, make the holiday season a time to engage in family activities that can encourage bonding.

What better time to start focusing on bonding than during the holiday season? Start now and keep it up! 

Blessings to you and yours!


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Hide and Seek

 
“You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden” ( Matthew 5:15)
 
 
Hide and Seek is a classic game.  Unlike the presently popular video games like  X-box, Playstation and Wii, it is not a flavor-of-the-month trending game with a new version coming out each year.  Instead it is flexible.  It has versatility to travel, from place to place, and generation to generation.
 
Our home is very often filled with a lot of preteen boys. We at one time had a basement that had almost no outside light.  The boys thought this was the best place to play games like hide and seek.  They would turn all the lights out, and go for it. They ran and hid in a pitch black environment.  As boys would have it, the more dangerous the better.  
 
The boys would try to be as quiet as possible, stumbling over things to find a hiding place.  The finder depended on the sounds of footsteps, or by chance bumping into the hiders.  It was difficult for him to find his way.  All that changed, if one person opened the upstairs door, or if one cell phone rang and the light on the phone came on.  It only took one thing, for the finder to find his way. It only took one light.
 
Such is the same in our walk in a sometimes extremely dark world.  We are the light of the world.  When we walk into dark situations and allow our lights to shine, people find what they are really looking for.  Many walk around stumbling from place to place, following chance sounds, bumping into many things and people along the way. They are lost in a dark place.  
 
The dark places need our light.  It can be dangerous, and we could stumble.  However, we must boldly shine our lights. Just one light,  may be what’s needed to illuminate someone’s way.
 
We shine our lights when we speak positive thoughts in negative places.  We shine our lights when we love seemingly unlovable people.  We shine our lights by simple random acts of kindness.
 
Sue worked in a corporate environment.  While getting breakfast in the company cafeteria, she noticed two mornings in a row a usually pleasant co-worker, with an unusually solemn demeanor.  Without a word, she went before her on occasion for the next few days and  anonymously prepaid her breakfast.
 
Rachel, after juggling bills for several months, came home from work one day to find her electricity had been turned off.
 
Sue acted based on Rachel’s demeanor, but had no idea that after her lights had been disconnected at home, she had connected a small light of hope in Rachel at work through her simple act of kindness.
 
Do not hide….seek!  There are many dark places.  Where will you shine?

Tracey Evans is an insurance underwriter who has a passion for writing. She enjoys developing programs attached to youth sports and extracurricular activities. Tracey is in the process of developing a ministry and organization, Moms of Champions and Champions Chance. Moms of Champions is a ministry of moms who pray for and encourage excellence in their children who participate in sports and other activities. Champions Chance is an organization in the making that will provide funding for children to find “their thing” and participate. She can be contacted at momsofchampions@yahoo.com.


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The Belt of Truth

Recently, as my family and I were heading out of the house, my oldest son made an interesting observation regarding my wardrobe.  Probably the most interesting fact was that my son noticed my apparel at all; nonetheless, he made a comment about my belt.  I was wearing my belt on the outside of my sweater, in what I thought was a fashion statement, but it puzzled him.  He basically said, “Mom, your belt is serving no purpose.  Why are you wearing it?”  It was at that moment I realized that he only wore belts to hold his pants up; it never entered his mind to wear a belt as an accessory.  Smiling, I replied, “I am trying to be fashionable.”  His face was even more puzzled, but he decided not to pursue the questioning any further.

 Not long after this incident, I was reminded of Ephesians 6:13-14, “Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.  Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist…”  This passage talks about preparing for battle.  Paul warns us that trouble will come, and in order for us to stand victoriously, we must ready ourselves with the armor of God.  Most of the time when we fall under the weight of the battle, it is because one or more pieces of our armor have fallen away.  Each piece of our spiritual armor serves an important purpose and is not just a clever analogy.

 The belt of truth is a crucial part of our armor because it wraps us in the truth of God’s Word.  This truth helps us to stand when the lies of the enemy bombard our mind.  When the enemy tells me that I am worthless and no good, I have to tighten up my belt of truth around me.  I have to wrap myself in the knowledge that God says that I am dearly loved and worth a great deal to Him.  When I am haunted by thoughts of fear and worry that my situation will never change, then I must strap on my belt of truth, remembering that God has good plans for me, plans to give me a hope and a future.  Our belt holds things in place when the attacks come and allows us to stand firm.

 We often wear our belt of truth as an accessory instead of a vital piece of our armor.  We showcase our beautiful belt as we quote the Scriptures to our friends and family when they are going through trouble, telling them that they need only to trust in God.  But when the trouble takes a turn toward us, our belt is nowhere to be found.  Instead of standing firm, wrapped in the truth that God has taught us through His Word, shown us in His faithfulness, and given us in His love, we are left drowning in a sea of the enemy’s lies.

Where are you today?  Do you feel helpless and overrun with thoughts of fear and anxiety?  Have the lies of the enemy beat you down and caused you to be discouraged?  Do you feel empty and trapped in a hopeless situation?  It is time to buckle up your belt and begin to lean on the truth God has given you.  As we stand firm on the truth of God’s Word, He will bring us victory.

 
 
Carmen McLean, an inspirational speaker and author, uses God’s Word, along with her personal experiences to equip and encourage people from all walks of life. Carmen grew up in a pastor’s home, but drugs and addiction tore her family apart; however, God has taught her how to walk victoriously out of the brokenness of her past and into the freedom that He has given. Her latest projects include, an upcoming book, Daddy’s Little Girl, which brings to light the struggles and restoration from a broken past, and her website, www.livingabove.net, which offers practical help for everyday life.


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5 Ways to Reduce Your Spending

These are hard times for many Americans. With layoffs, foreclosures, personal and business bankruptcies and mounting debt, we live in uncertain times. However, there is always hope and a way that can be made out of no way. Regardless of your current financial situation, there are ways to find extra money to improve your plight. It could be a huge improvement or small, but at least it will be progress. Even when it appears as if there is no more room to save, there is always something you can get rid of, reduce, or find a substitute for.  Continue to read. Below are five steps to help you reduce your budget to find extra money to pay down debt, save, and help others in need.

#1 – Utilities
If you’re not in a room, turn off the lights and television. Cook larger meals 2-3 days a week instead of every day to cut back on utility cost. Use your dishwasher, dryer, and washer only when you have a full load. Use blinds and curtains on windows to keep out heat in summer and keep in heat in winter. Use ceiling fans instead running the air conditioner. Turn down the hot water heater a few degrees, and turn it off while on vacation to cut cost.

#2 – Food
Bring your own snacks when running errands, visiting family, friends, and doing activities with children. Cook more and eat out less. Not only will money be saved, but you will eat healthier.  Use coupons from the newspaper and online for groceries and restaurants. Find restaurants in your areas where kids eat free. Eat out when kids can eat free, if you must go out.

#3 – Phone
Get rid of your landline if not needed. Use your cell phone for long distance calls. Get rid of all the unnecessary phone features that you do not need. Get a tracfone! It’s a pay-as-you-go cell phone that cost a one-time fee of $10-$20. You pay to put minutes on the phone as you need them. The best part, there is no monthly fee or contract.

#4Insurance
If your car is older and paid for, consider dropping collision insurance all together. Also, consider raising your deductible on your car, home, and health insurance to reduce your monthly cost. Reduce your spending and use the extra money to improve your financial situation, immediately. 

#5 – Cable
Is cable a must? A cable bill is not a necessity. Matter of fact, it is a luxury, especially if you cannot afford it. Having cable is a privilege that some just cannot afford. Paying $40, $70, $90, or $120 monthly to watch a tube adds up. Imagine this; get basic cable for $20 instead of paying $70 a month. Just that one change will save $600 a year.

You really can reduce your spending and find extra money to sustain your household, payoff debt, and save. Determine what are real needs and wants. Take care of your needs, first. Then make a decision to reduce your expenses today by using alternatives, cutting back, and eliminating things that just are not necessary and doesn’t make spending sense.  

Sharman Lawson is a financial coach, speaker, and author of the book 12 Steps to Eliminate Debt Forever! Visit her website at www.sharmanlawson.com.


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Behind The Scenes

 For the vision is yet for an appointed time and it hastens to the end [fulfillment]; it will not deceive or disappoint. Though it tarry, wait [earnestly] for it, because it will surely come; it will not be behind on its appointed day. Habakkuk 2: 3

On September 28th, our family celebrates “Gotcha Day”. When I tell others this, I usually get the silly “what the heck is Gotcha Day” stare. “Gotcha Day” basically is self-explanatory; it’s the day we met our daughter and brought her home… the day we “got her”.

Remembering the day we met her, also causes me to reminisce to the time before this happened. Our adoption journey began with the simple moment that I desired my son to have a playmate. The thought immediately came to my mind that he could have a playmate. Although, as far as we knew, I could birth more babies. I had always thought of adoption as a miraculous act of God. I quickly shared my thoughts with my husband.  After prayer, conversation and thought, his only comment was “no babies, and no girls”. At the time, I said Ok, and was honestly fine with that. However, if you know the end of the story, you can only imagine just how God worked to get us to a different place.

 After going through weeks of training, and learning that there were many expectant African-American mothers and not many families ready to adopt; we decided together that a baby was a good fit for our family. The next months consisted of hope, expectation, excitement…, then heartbreak; all in that order more than once. We were matched with an expecting birthmother- she changed her mind. We were matched with another expecting birthmother- she all of a sudden stopped communicating with the agency, disconnected her phone and could not be reached.  Although all of this was only within a few months time, I began to wonder if I’d heard God wrong, and maybe this wasn’t meant to be. The ring of the phone was torturing. Time continued to pass. Hope was still there, but wavering.

While I was questioning and wondering, God was working behind the scenes to create one of the greatest gifts ever. On Wednesday, September 25th, 2002, the phone rang. This time, it was not the call for a possible birthmother, but a precious little girl born the previous Sunday. She was waiting on us, and we could meet her and bring her home on that Saturday, September 28th. We did just that, and nine years later, she has her daddy wrapped around her finger.

God’s promises are real. God’s timing is perfect. Many times we want, what we want, when we want it. When it doesn’t fit into our agenda, or we get impatient, we may begin to question God. God has the appointed time for our blessings. As you wait, he works to make it right. Like our baby girl, when God’s timing arrives, it brings blessings beyond what you can ever imagine.

Tracey Evans is an insurance underwriter who has a passion for writing. She enjoys developing programs attached to youth sports and extracurricular activities. Tracey is in the process of developing a ministry and organization, Moms of Champions and Champions Chance. Moms of Champions is a ministry of moms who pray for and encourage excellence in their children who participate in sports and other activities. Champions Chance is an organization in the making that will provide funding for children to find “their thing” and participate. She can be contacted at momsofchampions@yahoo.com.


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How to Enjoy the Holidays and Save!

Holidays are enjoyable, but can become expensive if you aren’t aware of the amount of money you are spending.  It’s great to have precious time with friends, family, and loved ones, and not be buried in debt when it’s all over.  Do you want to have special memorable times during the holidays, but want to do things a little bit different this year? Well, this year you can.  However, it will mean preparing ahead, making small adjustments, and choosing to make a few sacrifices.  However, the results achieved will be well worth it.  Below are some money saving tips that will assist you in making your holidays less costly and brighter.

Relaxed Holiday Dinners
Do without formal holiday dinners, and have an evening of appetizers, movies, and board games. Have everyone pitch in by bringing their favorite hors d’oeuvres, drinks, games, and movies. What a great way to have fellowship, food, and fun without hurting your budget. 

Shop Early for Discounts

Look for airline tickets and rental car bargains early. Use discount websites like orbitz.com, expedia.com, priceline.com, or hotwire.com. Plan early in order to get the best price and deals.

An Organized List
Organize your shopping. Come up with a shopping list using a spreadsheet. Have the person’s name, gift, and the budgeted amount. Also, be sure to have who, what, where, and how you plan to locate the present, and how much it will cost.  Stay focused. By using an organized shopping list, you will discover that your holiday time will be more thought-out and less frantic as previous ones.  

The Envelope System
Put the money that you intend to spend on each individual into different envelopes. When you buy a gift, the money will come from a particular envelope until it’s gone.


After Christmas Shopping

After Christmas sales are the best. Instead of paying full price for gifts before Christmas, go shopping the day after Christmas.  You can save anywhere from 50-75% less for the items you want.

You really can enjoy the holidays and save money, too. The secret, plan, prepare, and get organized in advance. You will take pleasure in knowing you had an enjoyable holiday season without going broke.

Sharman Lawson is a financial coach, speaker, and author of the book 12 Steps to Eliminate Debt Forever! Visit her website at www.sharmanlawson.com.


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Take A Knee

 

Ephesians 3:14-19 ~ For this cause I bow my knees unto the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, of whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named, that he would grant you, according to the riches of his glory, to be strengthened with might by his Spirit in the inner man; that Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all saints what is the breadth, and length, and depth, and height; and to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fullness of God. 
 

My son has played football a total of six seasons. I am his biggest fan. However, I confess I know very little about the game. I struggle to know the basics. I know there is a lot of pushing, shoving and knocking down. I know there is offense and defense and the boys need to block. The more we knock the opposing team on the ground, the louder we are to cheer for our team.

I do find one part of football practice fascinating. In the middle of mass chaos and legal violence among boys (while grown men love every second of it), the coaches yell “take a knee”. The violence and chaos ceases, helmets come off , peace visits, and the boys are all focused on their leaders. They have a drink of water, hear a word of guidance or direction about the plays they will run. But most importantly… they listen.

Life sometimes violently comes to push, shove and at times “knock our block off” (learned that phrase last season). We are often confused and wonder what’s going on. When this happens…take a knee (or two). Drop to your knees, talk to your leader, drink of the living water, and most importantly listen for direction. In football, violence and chaos are expected. In life, God didn’t promise us we would not experience struggle. We will. He did promise he would give us a place of peace. Do not give up; instead take a time out and humble yourself by taking a knee before the father and go to that place. There you will find direction from your life coach and be given your strategy how to push through and endure until you enter the endzone.

Tracey Evans is an insurance underwriter who has a passion for writing. She enjoys developing programs attached to youth sports and extracurricular activities. Tracey is in the process of developing a ministry and organization, Moms of Champions and Champions Chance. Moms of Champions is a ministry of moms who pray for and encourage excellence in their children who participate in sports and other activities. Champions Chance is an organization in the making that will provide funding for children to find “their thing” and participate. She can be contacted at momsofchampions@yahoo.com.


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Money and Relationships

Money and relationships can be very complex.  In a relationship, without proper communication it can cause problems. Everyone goes into the relationship with some similar expectations and some different. It’s the differences that need the most attention. Its does not matter how old you are or how long you have been with your partner, it is important to talk, touch base, and continuously evaluate your thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors regarding money.

One thing I know for sure, if two people that live under one roof are walking in two different directions regarding their financial vision, there will be chaos.

Unfortunately, chaos causes confusion and many other unpleasant emotions. You say, your spouse won’t listen and doesn’t want to talk about money. That is a very valid argument. My question to you would be: when is the last time you tried talking about money, and how did you approach the subject?  Approaching the topic in a none threatening way is a start. You might just want to say, “Honey, where do you want to be financially in ten years?” That question may allow you to have an open dialog, and you never know where it will end.   

Here are some suggestions to help you set up an opportunity to start talking about money.    

  • The financial results you are looking to achieve, start living them in front of your partner. If you are still thinking, behaving, and spending the same, why should they change?
  •  If your partner will not save, you start saving with or without them.
  •   If you are concerned about having enough for retirement: Come up with a plan, and present the plan to him or her. It may start an unexpected dialog.
  •   Start living with the end in mind. Whatever your financial goals are, live out the steps to get you there yourself. You might be surprised, in time, your partner may follow.

Yes, money and relationships can be complicated. However, like anything else in life, with a plan, time, and open communication, money and relationships can be a beautiful thing.

Sharman Lawson is a financial coach, speaker, and author of the book 12 Steps to Eliminate Debt Forever! Visit her website at www.sharmanlawson.com.


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My Treasure Box

The big day had finally arrived…Isabella’s 5th birthday.  She had been counting down the days until her party, and it was finally here.  Streamers of every color were hanging all over the kitchen, and balloons filled the air.  As friends were flooding through the front door, Bella’s father quietly whispered to her that he had a secret gift he made especially for her.  Delighted, she skipped behind her father following him to his study where he handed her the most beautiful box she had ever seen.  “It is a jewelry box,” he said, “for you to keep your most precious and treasured gifts.  I made it just for you.”  Bella’s eyes danced at the sparkling jewels that lined the edgings of the box and the beautiful daisies that were painted on the top (daisies were her favorite).  When she opened the box, it was delicately lined with plush, purple velvet that felt especially soft to her tiny little fingers.  With one full swing, Bella wrapped her arms around her daddy’s neck and thanked him for her beautiful jewelry box, then quickly turned rushing back to her party.  Her father, looking through tear-filled eyes, watched as his precious little girl waltzed around the room bragging on her “treasure box” and lifting it up to everyone.

As the day went on, Bella kept her treasured box close to her as she went about the festivities.  She held it tightly as she blew out her candles on her birthday cake.  It lay close to her side as she opened her other gifts, none quite as beautiful though.  She kept it close as she played “Pin the Tail on the Donkey” and “Musical Chairs”, but as the party raged on, the box was often found left behind.  While striking the piñata, Bella let Molly hold it, who inadvertently left it on the table when it was her turn.  During “Hide and Seek”, the box was left in the mud behind the tree where Bella was hiding.  At some point, one of the neighbor boys grabbed it and began playing keep away.  By the time everyone had gone, Bella realized that her beautiful treasure box was missing.  Starting to panic, she desperately searched in every gift box, through all of the wrapping paper, under the table…everywhere, but the box was nowhere to be found.   With tears streaming down her face, she headed towards her father’s study; when all of a sudden, she spotted a sparkle coming from behind the chair.  She hurriedly raced to find her hand-made, exquisitely-designed jewelry box.  But wait!  What was this?  This could not be her jewelry box.  This one was missing some of the sparkling jewels that so elegantly trimmed the edges, and the beautiful daisies that perfectly graced the top were scratched and worn.  There was a deep, ugly scratch along the side, and the clasp had been broken off.  Even the wonderfully soft velvet that so delightfully covered the inside was torn.  “This cannot be my box,” Bella thought.  Tears continuing to stream, she sat there clutching her once beautiful, but now broken and muddy, scratched-up box. 

Her mind racing, Isabella decided to try and fix it herself.  She ran to the kitchen, grabbing tape, scissors, and glue.  She diligently worked and worked to repair her damaged box, but to no avail.  The mess was even bigger than before; her beautiful gift was ruined.  As Bella lay on her bed clutching her pillow and softly crying, her father quietly entered her room.  Seeing the splintered and scratched up box lying on the floor, he walked over and sat next to Bella on her bed.  Before he could say a word, his little girl flung herself into his arms and cried, “I’m so sorry, Daddy!  I ruined it…my beautiful treasure box…I ruined it!”  With gentle words, her loving father replied, “Bella, your box is not ruined.  I made this gift with my own two hands, and I know exactly how to fix it.  All you had to do is bring it to me.”  Bella picked up her box and carefully lifted it up to her father.  Her father quickly embraced his little girl and said, “Don’t worry, baby.  I’ll make it better than new.”

This story is a picture of our life.  God has given each of us a treasure box, which is our soul.  Inside it, we store our dreams, hopes, feelings, ideas, desires, and much, much more.  But throughout our life, our box gets damaged and marred through disappointments, hurts, failures, trouble, and unmet expectations.  These struggles cause us to walk around with a broken, scratched up, wounded soul.   Oftentimes, we try in our own strength to fix ourselves.  We work tirelessly to find substitutes that will make us feel better, but in the end, we’ve made an even bigger mess and usually feel a greater emptiness.  There is a scripture that has meant a great deal to me lately.  It is Psalm 25:1, “To You, O Lord, I lift up my soul.”  Just as Bella lifted up her broken box to her father, God has shown me that if will just lift up my soul to Him, then He will restore it.  When my heart gets broken, when my dreams are shattered, or when I fail miserably, God will take His gentle hands and restore my soul.  If you are struggling with hurts or disappointments, if you have felt like a complete failure or have lost your dream, then I challenge you today to lift up your soul to your heavenly Father and let Him repair your treasure box.  He will make it better than new.

Carmen McLean, an inspirational speaker and author, uses God’s Word, along with her personal experiences to equip and encourage people from all walks of life. Carmen grew up in a pastor’s home, but drugs and addiction tore her family apart; however, God has taught her how to walk victoriously out of the brokenness of her past and into the freedom that He has given. Her latest projects include, an upcoming book, Daddy’s Little Girl, which brings to light the struggles and restoration from a broken past, and her website, www.livingabove.net, which offers practical help for everyday life.


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